Have you ever been ghosted by a guy right when you’re having a very captivating conversation and it leaves you wondering where you went wrong? Well you’re just one of the many girls then.

So why do guys leave you hanging and quit replying for a few days? We’re here to answer this today with the top 10 reasons:

• He’s simply not interested

He may not have seen you as a partner to have for the future and the dates you have been on didn’t spark his interest in you so he may stop texting you hoping you will get the hint and understand that he doesn’t think you two are a match.

• He misunderstands

You might have made a joke or passed a comment that he doesn’t understand and he ends up perceiving it in a negative way, a way you didn’t intend. So, instead of clearing it out, he might just stop talking to you.

• You message him a little too much

A guy might lose interest if you Text him too frequently because he may think that things are going too fast or he might find it annoying and gets exhausted by the long conversations.

• You take too long to reply

If you reply to his texts very late then the guy will think that you’re not interested in him or that you’re not taking the time out to talk to him and he’ll give up responding as well.

• You’re being too pushy

He may leave you hanging if he feels anxious because you’re coming out as too strong in your conversations. He will try to get some space from you but won’t directly tell you and instead will take the wrong route of not responding.

• He’s too busy

The answer could be as simple as the fact that he doesn’t have the time to talk, he may under stress from work or school, having a hard time with his close relations or have a busy schedule throughout the day.

• He forgot

It’s normal to get caught in the daily rituals of your day and just like any other human he might have forgotten looking at his phone.  Don’t jump to the conclusion that he doesn’t like you.

• He found someone new

If he leaves you in the dark, sidelines you and never follows up then there is a chance that he met another person but was too weak to inform you about the situation.

• He’s not being real with you

You invest time into the person you’re genuinely interested in and try to message them often. If he has stopped then he may not be thinking of you as a long term partner and is just playing with your feelings by texting you as a pastime.

• He’s scared of commitment

If he stops talking when things were going exceptionally well and you were having a very special spark then he’s definitely frightened of duty and has commitment issues because there remains no other plausible answer as to why he left you hanging.