Oral sex is the paradox of pleasure, and we cannot describe just how amazing it can be! In terms of oral sex pleasure, erogenous zones are the designated “hotspots”. Oral sex is an art and those who do it well get as much pleasure as they deliver it to their partner. It becomes very important to understand how the body works to execute it correctly. First, let’s get a little glimpse of what erogenous zones are.

What are Erogenous Zones?

Erogenous zones are genitals and/or other body areas that make you feel sexual excitement when stimulated, which is, in most instances, by touching them. Erogenous zones add that spark to any form of sex, masturbation included. To make sure that sex is explosive, you have to master your erogenous zones and that of your partner. It is very essential whether you are in a long term relationship or just dating casually. It doesn’t matter whether you are an avid oral sex fan or a beginner, we are going to give you the perfect guide to boost your oral escapades.

Male Erogenous Zones

Penis Tip

One thing that one cannot ignore during oral action is the penis head. It is the most sensitive part of the penis and (for most men) the entire body. Make use of this knowledge during a blowjob! When delivering a blowjob, twirl the head with your tongue. You can also use your fingers to rub around and throw in a few slight pinches. To make the act more sensual, you can rub the penis head on your nipples, and we can guarantee that it will be pleasurable for both you and your partner.

You have to be very careful when teasing the penis head. If you are not gentle, the whole blowjob might end being painful rather than pleasurable. As you lick and massage it, don’t let your teeth join the fun. If your partner is not circumcised, make sure the foreskin is out of the way.

Certain positions could also come in handy. The snake charmer and the symphony will certainly do the trick. These positions allow you to complete access to the penis with enough freedom to whirl the penis head with your hands, tongue, and lips.


The scrotum or ball sack is also a very sensitive erogenous zone, especially during oral sex. The scrotum has many nerves, and because of this, it provides an unparalleled level of sexual excitement. If you have not had licked and sucked balls yet, give it a try, and you’ll be pleasantly surprised.

The scrotum provides vivid feelings, and switching between the penis and the scrotum during a blowjob will send your partner into delirium. There is a part of the scrotum that divides the two testicles, called the Raphe. It is easily the most sensitive part of the penis, and you need to make sure that you work on it. Use your tongue to lick the scrotum and also scratch them a little with your nails. We can guarantee you that your partner will explode.

The scrotum might be a little dry, and using edible lube will be a nice idea to ensure that the experience is smooth sailing. The teabag and the plumber are probably the best positions for scrotal exploration. They are a little physically demanding, but they are worth it, and you get used to them in a while.


If you did not know what the main source of male orgasms is, we are about to tell you. The frenulum is the elastic part on the underside of the penis – that part where the shaft and head join, exactly that part. Tthe best to use here is the tip of your tongue. Make sure that you lick the frenulum and then switch to the head to get the best experience out of this.

The frenulum is very sensitive. It is a good idea to keep your hands away from it and try to focus only with your tongue. If you were looking for a shortcut to oral orgasm, here it is. It is a nice trick if you are just trying to have a quick casual sex session. This way, you will be done in no time.

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Female Erogenous Zones

The female body has thousands of erogenous zones. Besides, they differ for each woman. We are going to be focusing on some of the most common ones you might not have known.

Inner Thighs

The female inner thighs have to be the starting point of anything oral. If you want to arouse your partner, you have to give the inner thigh a careful treatment and smooth rubs. As your tongue licks the thighs, your hands are rubbing the thighs and the buttock area. It will send your partner to heaven and back, and there is bound to be a lot of shaking in response to the pleasure. Do not forget inner thigh kisses!


We would not have done justice if we had not talked about the clitoris. It has 8000 nerves, and your oral experience is not complete if you do not involve the clitoris. Suck the clitoris, lick and touch it, and we can guarantee that you will send your partner into orgasm. The best part is clitoral stimulation works with entirely all the oral sex positions out there.


As we wind up, it’s worth reiterating: oral sex that focuses on erogenous zones is unbelievable. Don’t have someone to try these zones out with? With online dating sites like Wickedlist, the search just got easier wherever you are in the US! Sign up for free today and find the ideal partner for your desires in your area.